Affirmations
Are you a Hedgehog or a Fox?
A Better Way to Change
Bifocal Vision
The CEO's Trusted Advisor
The Changing Context of Business
Charisma
The Coach as Shaman
Coaching across Cultures
A Coaching Typology
The Coming Shake-Out in the Coaching World
Competing Commitments
Conscious Incompetence
Context - a powerful tool for change
Current Reality - Telling the Truth
Desire and Addiction
The Dangers of Executive Coaching
Ecopsychology and "Green and Away"
Emergence and Coaching
Endings
Energy
Excellence in Executive Coaching
Faulty Thinking and the ABC Model
The Future Landscape of Coaching 06/07
The Future Landscape of Coaching 07/08
Guilt is Good for You!
Happiness
Hassleme!
"I turned my face for a moment ..."
Inner Leadership and Psychosynthesis
In Praise of Ignorance
The Integral (AQAL) Model
Integral Leadership
Limitation Celebration
Managing Progression and Regression
Mentoring, Coaching, etc.
MBTI and Coaching
The Miracle Question
On Valuing
The One Thing You Need to Know
The Paradox of Choice
Parallel Worlds
Playing at Leadership?
Playing to our Strengths
Presence
Reflections on Being 50
Resilience
Shifting Stuck Patterns
The Set-Up-To-Fail Syndrome
Social Business
Sustainable Business
Time Management
Transformational Coaching
Values Priorities
What really makes people happy?
What I do
What is the Job of a Manager?
What is Success?
Which Mentor?
Working Identity
 

Parallel Worlds

I spent a few days during the summer of 2003 walking along Offa's Dyke, the ancient boundary between England and Wales built by King Offa in the 8th Century. In May, the border country is stunningly beautiful with the fresh growth, the extraordinary range of greens and the delicate hedgerow flowers. When all I had to do each day was to walk to my destination for the day, life became very simple, divorced as I was from the everyday complexity that I, like most of us, am usually immersed in.

Having finished the walking, I was on a bus travelling home gazing at the passing countryside and I noticed my mind turning back to my everyday life and to the tasks and obligations awaiting me - the 'musts', the 'shoulds', next week's schedule, and so on.

And then I saw through the window a path leading across a field to a stile and beyond the path continuing into the countryside. And, for a few seconds, I was on that path, stepping over the stile and disappearing back into the simpler, carefree world I had inhabited the last few days.

What I learned in that moment is how thin the lines between the different ways we approach our lives are - and also how wide the gulf between them! Back in my everyday life it is so easy to fall victim to the complexity of my outer life - and it is possible, even in the midst of this - to choose the path of simplicity.

"Asceticism is not that you should not own anything, but that nothing should own you." Ali Ibn Abi Talib
 
 
 
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