Affirmations
Are you a Hedgehog or a Fox?
A Better Way to Change
Bifocal Vision
The CEO's Trusted Advisor
The Changing Context of Business
Charisma
The Coach as Shaman
Coaching across Cultures
A Coaching Typology
The Coming Shake-Out in the Coaching World
Competing Commitments
Conscious Incompetence
Context - a powerful tool for change
Current Reality - Telling the Truth
Desire and Addiction
The Dangers of Executive Coaching
Ecopsychology and "Green and Away"
Emergence and Coaching
Endings
Energy
Excellence in Executive Coaching
Faulty Thinking and the ABC Model
The Future Landscape of Coaching 06/07
The Future Landscape of Coaching 07/08
Guilt is Good for You!
Happiness
Hassleme!
"I turned my face for a moment ..."
Inner Leadership and Psychosynthesis
In Praise of Ignorance
The Integral (AQAL) Model
Integral Leadership
Limitation Celebration
Managing Progression and Regression
Mentoring, Coaching, etc.
MBTI and Coaching
The Miracle Question
On Valuing
The One Thing You Need to Know
The Paradox of Choice
Parallel Worlds
Playing at Leadership?
Playing to our Strengths
Presence
Reflections on Being 50
Resilience
Shifting Stuck Patterns
The Set-Up-To-Fail Syndrome
Social Business
Sustainable Business
Time Management
Transformational Coaching
Values Priorities
What really makes people happy?
What I do
What is the Job of a Manager?
What is Success?
Which Mentor?
Working Identity
 

"I turned my face for a moment ..."

I read these lines by David Whyte (a poet who does a lot of work in organisations) every so often to reconnect myself to what is important.

Sometime ago at AT&T I found myself working with a roomful of particularly thoughtful managers. We were looking at the way human beings find it necessary to sacrifice their own sacred desires and personal visions on the altar of work and success. Out of this a woman wrote the following lines. She read them slowly from the back of the room, unaware how stricken we all were by the silence she created.

Ten years ago...

I turned my face for a moment

and it became my life.

We have patience for everything but what is most important to us. We look at the life of our own most central imaginings and see it beckon. For the most part we have not the courage to follow it, but we do not have the courage to leave it. We turn our face for a moment and tell ourselves we will be sure to get back to it. When we look again ten years have passed and we wonder what in God's name happened to us.

I turned my face for a moment

and it became my life.

From The Heart Aroused: Poetry and the Preservation of the Soul at Work by David Whyte, publ The Work Foundation, 1994, pages 196/7.

 
 
 
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